1But Jesus went to the Mount of Olives. 2At dawn he appeared again in the temple courts, where all the people gathered around him, and he sat down to teach them. 3The teachers of the law and the Pharisees brought in a woman caught in adultery. They made her stand before the group 4and said to Jesus, "Teacher, this woman was caught in the act of adultery. 5In the Law Moses commanded us to stone such women. Now what do you say?" 6They were using this question as a trap, in order to have a basis for accusing him.
But Jesus bent down and started to write on the ground with his finger. 7When they kept on questioning him, he straightened up and said to them, "If any one of you is without sin, let him be the first to throw a stone at her." 8Again he stooped down and wrote on the ground.
9At this, those who heard began to go away one at a time, the older ones first, until only Jesus was left, with the woman still standing there. 10Jesus straightened up and asked her, "Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?"
11"No one, sir," she said.
"Then neither do I condemn you," Jesus declared. "Go now and leave your life of sin."
John 8: 1-11 (NIV)
Acceptance. Approval. Where do we draw the line?
How do we accept someone yet disapprove his actions? Receive the person but reject his deeds? Not condemning and yet not condoning? Love the person but not his wrongdoings? How? Well, if Jesus can do it, and if Jesus asked us to do it, we need to, don't we? Thanks, that's helpful. Sorry for being sarcastic but that's the fact of the matter. Easier said than done. We know it's never easy. It's never easy. Never.
If any one of you is without sin, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.
We've been in those shoes, don't we? Just like the Pharisees (though not with the intention to trap Jesus). We caught someone in sin. We were disgusted. We questioned. We judged. We condemned. We were hurt. And most importantly, we stoned. Though not literally, but back in our minds, the person was stoned to death. We gave up mercy. Yes, she deserved to be stoned, but don't we too? We gave up hope. It's too much for me to take it, but is it not for God too? We gave up love. It's so hard for me to love her as it was before, but didn't God continue to love us? We gave up. We cast the first stone.
Then neither do I condemn you. Go now and leave your life of sin.
But what if she's not repentant? Or what if she felt sorry, but changed not? What if she tried to but failed? What if she goes back to her adulterous life? And what if, she really did? And I wonder what would Jesus do if He caught her again. Hm. Will Jesus this time cast the first stone? What would Jesus say to her?
Go now and leave your life of sin.
And if she sins again?
Go now and leave your life of sin.
And again, again, again, again and again?
Go now and leave your life of sin.
No way. No way. NO WAY. Yes, even I don't think so. Doesn't this show that God is condoning her actions? Doesn't this show God approve her wrongdoings? Doesn't this show God allow sins to continue to rule her life? No. God didn't say:
Go now.
Full stop. Period. Case closed. Nope, but God said:
Go now, and leave your life of sin.
Leave your life of sin.
God still, yes, God still waits for the repentance. God wants the repentance. And even if you don't the first time, He'll ask for it the second time. And third. Fourth. Fifth. And you get my drift. But doesn't God's forgiveness has its limit? When's the point of no return? When will God stop offering His forgiveness? When will God 'cast the first stone'?
I don't know. Seriously, I don't know. I really don't know. But what I do know is, God has yet to cast the first stone at me. So how can I? How can we?
And for those who are in the shoes of the woman, repent. Repent now. No, His forgiveness does not give you the license to continue sinning. Yes, God doesn't condemn, but neither did He condone. That's why we need to leave our lives of sin. And that's what He ask us to do. How on earth, I said it again, HOW ON EARTH can you go on sinning after you experience His love and forgiveness? So how can you? How can we?
Acceptance, but not approval.
And that is what we are called to do.